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In my opinion, this is the most over looked, mistaken, and most mis-represented person in the BDSM culture as most others have a voice…. Personally, I have come to find out and conclude that male hetero-sexual submissives are not allowed to be themselves in the community. Because apparently, society as a whole, including the BDSM culture at large, have made it so these men cannot come out of the proverbial closet to be themselves in the BDSM culture.

What is the reasoning for this? WHY is this? For shame, people, for shame. And people say here say that they are open minded within the BDSM community…. What is a legitimate reason why? So, male subs I ask the community as a whole…please tell me, please explain to me, with a mature and logical argument why submissive hetero-sexual males are not accepted in BDSM culture. If there is no reason, then people need to re-examine their beliefs and themelves, for their hypocricies.

And I say that with the nicest of intentions and with the sweetest of smiles, of course…. So I ask, so what, if a male submissive has emotions where they want to express themselves to their Dominant female?

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So what if a male wants to submit to a female? Who are you to judge? So what, if they like to be beaten? You like to beat your submissive too. So what, if male submissives want to talk about things that most males cannot talk about, but females can?

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So what, if they…so on and so forth… Who are you to judge? You do things against societal norms as well. You do things that break the law as well.

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You do things that go against moral codes as well. As a matter of fact, I believe male hetero-sexual submissives are stronger than most male subs they are able to admit to themselves within this society that they are what they are, going against the grain. So the next time someone wants to say a male submissive is a pansy…maybe they should really look within because the fact is, that person would never be able to handle that reality themselves….

I could go on…but I think I have made my points very clear…. Which brings me to my next point…. In my opinion, the most mis-judged female…. You ignorant, self-absorbed, egotistical, oxygen thief. And you wonder why FemDoms are always pissed off and take offense to and at most male Dominants? You wonder why most FemDoms get ready to do battle when a male Dom when they walk into the room? Once again, if you looked outside of the social and societal norms of what you were raised with, maybe, just maybe, you would see that we, just like you; have our own preferences.

And guess what? How would you like it, if every FemDom you met said the same to you every first meeting you had with them? Now you know how we as Female Dominants feel. Not every FemDom is a paid Dominatrix!!! Just as the male hetero-sexual submissives are often, misunderstood, so often to are the Female Dominants; especially ones who are NOT dominatrixes.

All too often, if a Female is a Dominant, she is automatically classified as a Dominatrix and that is not always the case and some take great offense to it. While some females choose to do BDSM as a profession, which is their choice, others, like myself, choose to never go down that path and are offended when it is even mentioned.

Because, personally, I do not need to male subs my physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual self in order to complete or follow my BDSM journey. If others do, that is their path, male subs for people like me, we do not want to be lumped into the category of a Dominatrix as we find it to be their path and not ours. In reference, that would be like calling a Dominant a submissive. It is quite upsetting to the receiver and quite unwanted and unwarranted, unless trying to upset the person.

I play with my boys and girls because I want to, because I crave them, because they crave me, because of our relationship, because of our connections, because…etc…. I do not play because I need to pay a bill or because of a paycheck. I do not play to work. This is not work. BDSM is play to me. BDSM is a release to me. BDSM is fun to me. BDSM is a joy to me. To me, and to Females like me, professional work is not anything remotely near in sight and the thought of it not only disgusts our thought process for us to do for ourselves not for others to do for it is their choice ; that it would never be a remote possibility to happen with me or people like me.

Have I been offered money? However, I turned them down because of my morals and ethical values for me personally could not handle the implications afterwards mentally or emotionally.

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Personally, I cannot handle it. I am not made to make money while manipulating people. Personally, my biggest issue, as I have stated before is the married males who go to professionals to cheat on their wives and all who participate. That is my biggest issue of them all, but I digress. However, back to the issues at hand; not all Females who are Dominant are professionals and those who are not take offense and rightly so as they and I have not sold ourselves for money, to put it simply.

The way I look at it, and I do not look at it as all do, so this is me; I have not had someone played by me, pay me, and then go wack off in front of me or after I am done with them. Anyone I have played with, there was a balanced and shared form of energy between the two of us and no money exchanged hands or dressers ; male subs just enjoyed the other fully.

The experience was purely for that…the experience…the way I believe it should be. Thank you for your time, and have a nice day. Lady Dori Belle. Medium is an open platform where million readers come to find insightful and dynamic thinking. Here, expert and undiscovered voices alike dive into the heart of any topic and bring new ideas male subs the surface.

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